I watched as she finished up with another customer, took a call and then greeted me with warmth. When she sat down to put in my order you could hear the sigh of relief from her knees to her brain as she clicked on the keyboard apologizing for the delay in service, not having the new product I was there to snag on shelves yet, and the two-month-old remodel still waiting for additional shelving.
I adore her. I found myself reflected in her young spirit and was inspired by her love for the industry we share.
And she looked tired.
And I know that look.
Suddenly, I am afraid for her.
This is what burnout looks like.
Maybe that is why I stuck my big head into her face and suggested that she needed an assistant. It sparked a tired reply that she can't afford more than the part time helper she had and how will she possibly find the right person..... we all know her delima.
Years ago I received SAME advice on one of those 'tired' days long ago, and I turned it down using the same excuses she did.
So, I said what I wish someone could have been so blunt as to say to me. (Would I have changed course? Would I still have my small shop, or maybe two or more??? I don't know the answer to that, but I will say I really love the path my like has taken.) What if someone had said to me what I now know I need to say to her:
"You mean that if you pay someone else ten bucks an hour to grab a product off the shelf from the warehouse for me while you take care of some bigger fish you wouldn't increase your own earning power and earn $100 in an hour instead?"
Her reply gave me hope that she was listening. She said I had given her a new perspective that day.
If someone could wave the magic wand and have time reverse, I would take back a day. But probably just to prove a point. That point is that I really have learned so much wisdom in these past years that my young enthusiastic years just could not embrace.
I hope this young store owner can embrace an assistant, apprentice or a part-time shadow of some sort to help her take better care of EVERYONE. I need her to be there when I want to know the latest, greatest most very cool thing about this new nail product.
I want her to beat the odds.
And I want her to be there thriving when I come back next time.